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Growing a South Dakotan

How do you grow a South Dakotan? We all want the children in our lives to grow up with a sense of place and pride. But nobody has ever published a”how to” guide on accomplishing such a goal. Finally the void has been filled. You’ll find such a guide in our Jan/Feb 2016 issue.

Our magazine staff began the task by recalling our own childhood experiences. Then we asked experts (anglers, cowboys, artists, rock hounds and a rattlesnake professor) to help. The result is a guide for parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, teachers and all adults who play important roles in young South Dakotans’ lives.

Much of the guide touches on ways to involve children with nature. We offer advice on best hikes, rock hunting, rattlesnake etiquette, and guides on how to identify South Dakota fish, trees and the most common cattle breeds.

Joel Vasek, a popular fishing guide from Geddes, tells how he engages children on a fishing trip. “Get them involved in some of the decisions,” he suggests. “We can catch fish on anything, so let them look through the tackle box and pick out a few lures. I also make sure the live well is accessible to them, and then I’ll ask them to check on the fish now and then.”

Are you familiar with”Hail, South Dakota,” our state song? That’s one of several cultural pieces we suggest are important to raising a South Dakotan. The song was written by DeeCort Hammitt of Alcester and adopted in 1947. He was the first director of the Alcester town band that performed for President Calvin Coolidge during his Black Hills vacation in 1927.

We also recommend a reading list and a compilation of art museums where they’ll find some of the most important works South Dakotans have created. And of course we suggest that kids learn about Badger Clark, our state’s first poet laureate who wrote the beloved poem “A Cowboy’s Prayer.”

We also solicited suggestions from the Reinhold family of Sturgis, operators of Rainbow Bible Ranch; Suzanne Hegg, the first executive director of the Children’s Museum in Brookings; and Steve Van Bockern, an education professor at Augustana University in Sioux Falls.

And we visited with Marla Bull Bear, director of the Native American Advocacy Program that hosts summer camps for youth at Milk’s Camp in Gregory County. Marla uses stories about nature to teach life lessons. At a recent camp, she and camp participants spooked a blue heron while taking a walk. That prompted her to tell the group a story of a heron that forgot it was a migratory bird. “It didn’t know its own history and forgot who it was,” she said. “It thought it could be a winter bird, but when the cold weather came it nearly froze to death because it was too proud and refused help.”

Like blue herons, it’s important for our youngsters to know their place. Our guide is a good start.

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Dear Young South Dakotan

Thousands of young South Dakotans are celebrating graduations this month, and they’ll hear heartfelt advice from well-qualified speakers urging them to dream big, change the world and dance like no one is watching.

In our 30 years of publishing South Dakota Magazine, we’ve met some interesting people who’ll probably not ever be invited to give a commencement address, and so we decided to collaborate with some of them. The end result is a collection of 18″letters to grads” published in our May/June issue. Their advice is unconventional, and perhaps more personal than what you’ll hear on graduation day.

For example, one letter comes from Chol Atem, a 23-year-old from Yankton who fled from his home in Sudan at the age of 5 in 1988. He was one of the “Lost Boys of Sudan,” and arrived in South Dakota 13 years later to study at Mount Marty College. His advice is to never take home for granted, a lesson he learned the hard way.

“It was as if someone took me out of my family at the young age and abandoned me on a deserted island,” he says of being displaced and separated from his family. “It took 23 years before I was reunited with them in April 2011. And during that period there was no form of communication. That experience taught me that you do not know how important it is to have a home until you do not have one.” Atem urges South Dakota youth to invest and build in their home state.

Demi Beautiful Bald Eagle, a member of the Cheyenne River Sioux Tribe, grew up in Dupree. She encourages youth, especially reservation youth, to ignore statistics and low expectations when they begin to carve their paths for the future. Easier said than done, but Demi is living it right now as a college student at United Tribes Technical College in Bismarck, N.D.

“Now that I’m in college, I see why so many drop out. It’s not the work that’s hard or being away from home. I’m weary from the expectations, the expense and the pressure. I was, and still am scared to fail. Fail in my community’s eyes. Fail in mine,” she writes. Demi encourages youth to keep trying. Her motivation is to carve a path for her brother and sister, and “all kids who have great minds but get overlooked and repressed.” She hopes to return home to teach.

Another one of my favorite letters comes from writer Linda Hasselstrom. Linda has an enviable life. She is a well-known, well-respected author and lives on a beautiful West River ranch. But as a young lady just leaving college, she envisioned her life a bit differently. “I expected to be a wife, mother, writer, teacher, rancher and Great American novelist,” she wrote. “I’d ride Arabian horses across the South Dakota range with my gorgeous husband and our three beautiful children. At night I’d write brilliant novels that would sell millions of copies. We’d vacation in Paris, but live in South Dakota.”

Now her best material is what happened to her instead of the life she planned. “Like most folks, I spend much of my time doing the small routine tasks of daily life. I spend more time picking up the waste products deposited by my dogs than accepting awards, more time removing hairs from my chin than counting my money.” But she also learned that what her father used to say is true: A man is about as happy as he makes up his mind to be. “I was skeptical. Now I believe,” she writes. “I create my joy by something as simple as watching a sunrise or scratching a dog’s ears.”

Other letters were written by cowboys, teachers, poets and even a young lawyer from Lemmon. Like them, we also wish congratulations to all our high school and college graduates. Enjoy your day in the sun. Wherever life takes you, be glad you started your life’s path in South Dakota.

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Lakota Nation Invitational

We sent a writer to the Lakota Nation Invitational Tournament (LNI) last weekend in Rapid City. We’ll have a major feature article on the LNI in the fall of 2015, but we thought we’d share some photographs of the big winter extravaganza that has been held for the past 38 years at the Rushmore Plaza Civic Center in Rapid City. Photos by Bernie Hunhoff.
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Learning about the Mighty Mo

How do you find a star in a cottonwood twig? What’s the most ferocious winged predator of the plains? Kids discovered the answers to those questions and many more at the very first Missouri River Outdoor Expo in Yankton’s Riverside Park. Local Boy Scouts organized the event, which featured a hands-on look at the flora and fauna of the mighty Missouri. Photos by Bernie Hunhoff.